Haha people. my boyfriend of 4.5 years has decided to break up with me. ever since he’s joined amway there’s been an existing tension i guess, like he said when he finds new prospects i can no longer be ‘genuinely happy for him’, and we belong to different lives now, different futures. i’m terribly sad and i just want to know if there’s been anyone out there who experienced this. also, i dont know if i should wait for him, to wake up from this dream. i really care alot about him and i really do (always have) envisioned a future with him. i guess i just want to ask if anyone went through this, and how they dealt with it, and if this means it should be the end.
One point you can take, if she continues, is to point out she’s more worried about people hearing what you say than about the content of what you say. That seems to indicate she can’t find proof to back her statements and is scared of the truth.
Also, it seems like she’s become quite skilled at the art of cognitive dissonance.